DiscoverAdoptive Mom Life | Open Adoption, Adoptive Parenting, Birth Family, Christian Community, Biblical Encouragement54 | Adoptive Parents, Trauma, and the Nervous System: What You Must Know (with Trauma Therapist, Keli Tondre, PART I)
54 | Adoptive Parents, Trauma, and the Nervous System: What You Must Know (with Trauma Therapist, Keli Tondre, PART I)

54 | Adoptive Parents, Trauma, and the Nervous System: What You Must Know (with Trauma Therapist, Keli Tondre, PART I)

Update: 2025-09-10
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Ever feel like you’re stuck in survival mode as an adoptive mom? In this episode, I’m joined by Keli Tondre, adoptive mom, trauma therapist, and founder of Tondre Therapeutics.


 


 


Keli shares both her personal adoption journey and her professional expertise to help us understand trauma, regulate our nervous systems, and find hope in the hard places.


 


 


 


We talk about:



  • Why adoption always carries trauma (even in the best situations)

  • What Polyvagal Theory + Internal Family Systems mean for adoptive parent

  • Simple ways to know when you are dysregulated—and how to reset

  • The importance of co-regulation in parenting our kids


 


 


 


Keli also shares her program, the Adoptive and Foster Parent Trauma Transformation, which offers online teaching, group coaching, and community for parents who want to move from surviving to thriving.


 


 


Resources Mentioned:



 


 


 


Be sure to tune in next week for PART 2 of this eye-opening conversation.


 


 


Connect with Keli:


 


tondretherapeutics.com
To book a call: tondretherapeutics.com/call
To view masterclass: tondretherapeutics.com/webinar
 
 
**Use referral code CARLYGRACE for a program BONUS!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Contact - > Carly@adoptivemomlife.com


Podcast -> bit.ly/adoptivemomlifepodcast


Private FB Group -> bit.ly/adoptivemomlife


Become an Insider - > AMLInsider


 


 


Next Steps:


 


Step 1: Join the private community with other adoptive moms looking for support and camaraderie at Adoptive Mom Life.


 


Step 2: Sign up for the monthly Adoptive Mom Life Newsletter here.

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54 | Adoptive Parents, Trauma, and the Nervous System: What You Must Know (with Trauma Therapist, Keli Tondre, PART I)

54 | Adoptive Parents, Trauma, and the Nervous System: What You Must Know (with Trauma Therapist, Keli Tondre, PART I)

Carly | Adoptive Parent, Adoption Support, Encourager, Work from Home Mom